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Needs must!

Reluctantly, I am back in the UK, en route to Portugal. I had a testing journey from Ireland, with a mechanical issue that has become dangerous. It’s been lurking in... Read More

December 3, 2023
A strange elation

The radio silence of the last month marked a period of intense contemplation, which resulted in a u-turn for the ‘mothership’ and me. As I write, I am in Wales.... Read More

November 13, 2023
The great awakening, women's leadership and other subjects

In an interview on UK Health Radio’s, 'The Great Awakening Show', I talked to host Joanne about what the current awakening of many in our world looks like to me,... Read More

September 30, 2023
Don't ask, don't get!

On the house front, there's been more decorating - this time the rear sitting room which is the most spectacular room in the house and certainly worthy of a lick... Read More

September 25, 2023
An unusual way to network

Life has continued at pace in the last few weeks, pushed along by powerful astrological influences acting as a catalyst for change. Having narrowed down the target area in my... Read More

September 17, 2023
Only I can fix me

It's so easy to lose your mojo, as life pulls and pushes you every which way, on a daily basis. In fact, moments of of equilibrium are generally the exception... Read More

September 7, 2023
Our true human nature

Just like nature, we have the potential to change ourselves moment by moment, moving through a kaleidoscope of infinite variety in our nature and our being. We are magnificent, like... Read More

August 29, 2023
Insights on life and times

In this marvellous discussion with my friend Jeremy Jones, Jeremy recounts the key events that shaped his journey to health, from the verge of suicide and a struggle with epilepsy.... Read More

August 9, 2023
Inspiration on steroids

I am spinning in a whirlwind of synchronicity. I feel giddy from the intensity of it. I am surrounded by information I need to assimilate and store for future reference.... Read More

July 30, 2023
It's all in the mind

I take my safety seriously, especially when travelling. It's not a lottery. I am responsible for me. I have had my fair share of accidents in the past - in... Read More

July 21, 2023
Who am I?

I have been reviewing some old writings recently, which included insights and epiphanies that helped me to deal with the challenges I faced during a fast-moving period of my life.... Read More

July 4, 2023
Fundamental humanity

In a bid to clear the cobwebs from too much driving recently, I set off on a coastal walk this morning at Eyeries, on the Beara Peninsular. It is spectacular!... Read More

July 1, 2023
The third language

Yesterday, I recorded an interview with Ritchie Allen, a much loved Irish podcaster who is based in the UK. His shows are a source of intel’ for me on all... Read More

June 23, 2023
Best laid plans

I wrote this blog in my head a few days ago, whilst travelling to a new caravan site. The journey was challenging and, ultimately, I had to choose whether to... Read More

June 16, 2023
Timing is everything

I have learned from personal experience (and also from studying metaphysics) that when you use the power of focused thought, and energise it with feeling, what you want to create... Read More

June 7, 2023
Harnessing the power of thought

I recently did a video interview with Corey Lynn on the Solari Report ('Solution Series'). It's suscriber only content, but you can watch the free preview. It was about living... Read More

June 3, 2023
Conflicted

I live happily at both ends of the spectrum. Expansive, extrovert and centre-stage is how I lived during the first 20 years of my career, in the thick of it,... Read More

May 29, 2023
Navigating the terrain

I have been doing a lot of cycling, as I mentioned previously, in order to view the terrain in the target area for the Earth Collective, prior to starting my... Read More

May 27, 2023
The path to freedom

The swirling blizzard continued relentlessly day and night and whipped the heavy snowfall up into drifts of 10 to 15 feet in some areas around the house, yard and fields.... Read More

May 21, 2023
A masterclass in manifestation

This is the mantra I am using for the Earth Collective project. It is an opportunity to put into practise everything I have learned so far, including metaphysical and practical... Read More

May 16, 2023
Secret of the land

In the month since the last blog about the Ireland adventure, and my quest to create a self-sufficient, co-living community on the Emerald Isle, I have moved on from Tipperary.... Read More

May 14, 2023
Our true human nature

I gawped in amazement at yet another stunning sunset, and was filled with wonderment at how every one is unique and exquisite. That night, I observed the full moon, which... Read More

May 6, 2023
Silencing Fear

A friend had been experiencing neighbour difficulties. She was harassed and it got to the point where she was reluctant to leave her house, felt physically sick when she saw... Read More

April 25, 2023
What my animals have told me

Did you know you can bring your beloved animals back to you when they pass on? This is my experience, several times over, in fact. And they don't necessarily return... Read More

April 12, 2023
The sweet spot

I am finally on the Emerald Isle, near Tipperary as I write, looking out to the spectacular Galtee Mountains. What a relief it is to be here. My heart and... Read More

April 9, 2023
Secret lives

I have recently made the acquaintance of a little person who, unbeknown to me, secretly lives under the floorboards in the ancient barn. There are steps up to the wooden... Read More

March 25, 2023
Unspoken truths

In this video, Bridget Finklaire and I discuss subjects that have featured profoundly in our personal experience. We have much in common including building a professional life in London initially,... Read More

March 15, 2023
How to help others using the power of thought

Anyone can benefit from compassionate thought, including family and friends in difficulty, as well as people affected by catastrophic world events such as forced migration, cataclysmic weather, mass shootings, volatile... Read More

March 12, 2023
Dowsing with a pendulum - the ultimate 'smart' device

Dowsing with a pendulum is an amazing tool and one that I have been using for over 30 years. Basically, it’s your instinct on the end of a piece of... Read More

March 2, 2023
Quantumness

'Quantum' is an increasingly popular term but it's confusing for the majority of us, who are not scientists. And what it means in physics and metaphysics differs. In this audio... Read More

February 20, 2023
The science of spirituality

Introducing this discussion with Ulrike Granögger, I explain that I have always believed spirituality is science that is not yet understood. I came to this realisation through my personal (and... Read More

February 12, 2023
How to take charge of your body and your health

We have much more control over our body than is commonly thought. Most people assume we have no control except around the edges through eating a healthy diet, exercising or... Read More

February 5, 2023
How to regain your balance and equilibrium

What does it feel like to be balanced? For me, it's a heady mix of mental, emotional and physical factors. For instance, feeling energised and positive, grounded and strong in... Read More

February 1, 2023
Perfect practise makes perfect!

I would like to introduce you to Lou. I have mentioned Lou and her family in a previous blog, and the story of how they came to leave New Zealand,... Read More

January 27, 2023
Consciously creating the life you want

Using conscious thought to create the life you want and become the master of your own health, abundance, joy and so much more, is a very big subject. It's actually... Read More

January 9, 2023
Training your instinct

Instinct is something we are born with, and from the very early years of life, it's the prime force that motivates us. But society and education suppress it in favour... Read More

December 30, 2022
The limit of enjoyment

I am loving my new e-bike. I have had it for about a month. My one and only previous bike, was a beloved Dawes Lady Galaxy, which I bought 42... Read More

December 26, 2022
Moving into our magnificence

Shortly after placing an advert on the Diggers & Dreamers website to attract participants to the Earth Collective Earth project, I was contacted by Lou. It was clear, from the... Read More

December 22, 2022
The power of thought

I have proved this to myself, beyond a shadow of a doubt. Because thought has energy, it affects us and the world around us. Coincidences are an example. You might... Read More

December 15, 2022
Affirmations and how to change your life

To me, affirmations are totally natural, and I have used them to help me change much in my life. They are especially relevant today in our fast moving world because,... Read More

November 28, 2022
What is spirituality?

This is a big question but, at its simplest, here is what it means to me... spirituality is 'everthing that there is'. It ranges from practical applications in everyday life... Read More

November 17, 2022
Learning by example

Last weekend, I attended a course at a long-established intentional community in the UK, the Cannon Frome Court community, near Ledbury. The course was designed for people like me who... Read More

November 16, 2022
Connecting with nature

Connecting with nature is a well used expression. But what does it really mean? It's not the same as being in nature whilst you are doing something else. It was... Read More

November 9, 2022
Phoenix rising

It’s been a while since I put pen to paper. Nonetheless, much has been going on. So, this blog is a bit of an epic and you might want a... Read More

November 6, 2022
Wake up and smell the... pooh!?

Oh boy, there is a lot of it, all around us. In the current ‘madness of our world’, everywhere you look, there are piles of it. On the one hand,... Read More

October 4, 2022
The art of homeostasis

There is an ancient ‘person’ in residence on the touring park, where my ship (on wheels) is currently anchored. By all accounts the ‘person’ is 800-1000 years old. They live... Read More

September 30, 2022
Manifesting the unmanifest

This is an important discussion with well-known British astrologer Pam Gregory, on the subject of ‘taking back your power' in the most profound way. By using focused thought, combined with... Read More

September 23, 2022
What next?

My life on board the ‘ship on wheels’ began a year ago, which led me to reflect on what I have experienced, as well as ask a big question -... Read More

August 22, 2022
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